Ok, Tom, Dr. Bill, Frank, Larry, Petie, etc...here's more of the story re. my situation here...
Tom, of course I know and play that kiss when to me it's advisable - I chose not to here for two reasons....#1 reason is I could have left some kind of bank on either ball, and John banks
very well, even on tough, very off angle banks...I'll give my second reason at the end of this...
Dr. Billy, I didn't shoot the tickee for two reasons....#1 reason is that because of the need to hit it softly, there was the possibility of a slight roll-of of the cueball, thus causing a bad result...my second reason to this and to Tom is...
John's my friend and we're not betting high here..we'd already been playing for 5-1/2 hours and I'm hungry and ready to stop playing..so I just felt like going down fighting/shooting by trying to see if I could roll in the spot shot for the win..and if I missed it and sold out (as I did), so be it, no big deal - John and I will be playing a million more games after this one (if the good lord allows, that is :heh)...
But, if this had been a more serious match, i.e. if I was in this same spot against John H. next weekend..I'm not sure what I would have done - I'd have to think about it further..I might have taken an intentional by corner-hooking him in the pocket jaws...:heh....and if I did do this - I would give my sincere apologies to darmoose and Tyler for prolonging/slowing down the game...:lol...

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- Ghost