There is no standard rule that covers that situation. The gentlemanly thing to do would be to comply with the breaker's wishes. However you're under no obligation to do so. Of course there is wide variation of practices in private play, in contrast to tournament play.
In my particular case I always play "rack your own". No one is going to give you as good a rack as you would do for yourself. The opponent should have the option of checking the rack for obvious errors, but in my opinion the inspection should be very limited, otherwise guys would use the inspection as a sharking tactic.
~Doc
From our standard rules: "
2.1 All fifteen balls are
tightly racked in no particular required order in a standard triangle with the apex ball placed as nearly as possible on the foot spot. In tournament play, players lag for the first break...
...Traditionally opponents rack the balls for the breaker, with the breaker having option to inspect the rack and ask for a re-rack if they are not satisfied with the quality of the rack. In current tournament play, players may rack their own balls, with the opponent having the option to inspect the rack.
'Racking your own' is recommended at all times, to reduce racking complaints."